Monday, June 27, 2011

ARRIVED IN SHANGHAI

We left the RV Wednesday morning at 3:30 a.m. to drive to the Sheridan Hotel to park our car in long-term parking and take a shuttle to the airport. We cleared security in plenty of time and waited to see if we could get on the 5:40 a.m. flight to Detroit. We fly on “buddy passes” given to us by Delta employees so we are on standby until the plane has boarded and then we get what seats are left. On this flight, it was oversold so we had little hope of getting on but we actually were called and got the last two seats on the flight.


We didn’t sit together. A couple on my left started asking what I was making. I crochet baby blankets to pass the time on planes and trains. One question led to another and finally I explained that we work in China. They wanted to know what we do and after a few minutes they asked what church sponsored us. When I said we were members of the Lewisville C of C, big smiles came to their faces. They go to Cedar Hill, a suburb of Dallas. We have not yet been to their congregation. We exchanged information and talked about various people we both knew. They know Colt McCoy who played with the Dallas Cowboys and is a member of the church. In fact, his Mom (Deborah Woodruff) and our daughter, Leigh Ann, were friends in high school. We were also very close to the rest of the Woodruff family as we attended the same congregation when our children were small.

The man to my right told me he lived in China for two years. I can’t begin to spell the name of the city where he lived. He builds Black Hawk helicopters so he’s been all over the world (India, Turkey and served in Desert Storm in Saudi Arabia). He married a Chinese girl and put her through university until she got her master’s degree. Then she took up with his best friend. He presently has a Chinese girlfriend in the U.S. who is divorced and has three girls in U.S. universities, all going free on scholarships because of their excellent grades. He is a Tea Party advocate and was quite vocal about the way our country is heading. He is angry toward our politicians and the political system we have at the present time. He didn’t care who heard what he had to say. The couple on my left joined in and agreed with him on most everything. I told him I agree too but I didn’t voice my opinion on things, because he was doing enough of that for both of us.

Speaking of interesting people, I met a lady in the laundry mat in Lewisville when I was catching up on my laundry before we left Texas. She started the conversation saying she had just returned from a trip to Israel. She began talking about the Jewish history, the Law of Moses and a bunch of stuff I knew nothing about. She said she left Christianity after 40 active years, but she’s a believer in some group that feels God never changes and the Old Testament law was not “done away with.” She believes we must keep all of the Jewish holidays (I asked her about sacrifices and got a mixed answer that was totally foreign garbage, so I don’t know how she gets around slaughtering a lamb for Passover). She said the New Testament in English is totally mistranslated and there’s no hope for anyone following it unless they study the Hebrew and the Torah and follow all of the laws of God. She asked me if I believed I would go to heaven. I told her “certainly.” Her comment in an exaggerated and rather unpleasant voice was, “Good Luck!”

She believes in the 1000 year reign of Christ on the earth and she thinks she knows when the end of the world will be. (I didn’t ask her if she was part of the crazy group that just predicted it and missed it, now postponing it until October). She picks what she wants from the New Testament and Old Testament but what she doesn’t want, she quickly says the translations are incorrect and preachers have misquoted and mislead all Christian believers. She is quite an authority on everything.

She was so totally off the wall with her beliefs so there is no common ground without her accepting the authority of the New Testament. I told her my husband was a minister and I have known many people who studied and knew the Hebrew and Greek languages and I have to put my trust somewhat in them knowing the background since I can’t personally learn all of this myself. In her opinion, all religions are wrong and everyone is lost besides her small group of believers. It was an unpleasant conversation for me. I think she thoroughly enjoyed showing off her knowledge and superior beliefs of what is true and acceptable by God. She acted as if she is infallible.

It’s just my luck to run into someone like her that wants to discuss religion (most don’t) and then is the type of person you cannot teach. When she heard that my husband is a minister, her eyes lit up and she said, “Oh, I would absolutely love to go head to head with him.” She thinks she could whip him down in a few minutes’ time. I told her he would not be interested. She wanted to know why. I told her it would be a total waste of time to discuss it further with her because she had her strong opinions and no one can change it. She said no one was trying to change anyone but why discuss it with someone like this. It’s like trying to study with Mormons or Jehovah Witnesses. I refused to let her think she had gotten to me and shattered my faith in any way but it did upset me somewhat to hear things like this, especially with this woman’s attitude.

Back to our trip. We arrived in Detroit on Wednesday morning and had lunch at Chili’s (no breakfast that morning). We had the rest of the day to walk and rest in the airport until the flight to Shanghai at 4:30 p.m. We had no problem getting on that flight and were seated in first class. The flight was fine and I actually slept 6 hours (restless sleep but nevertheless better than none). The two previous nights in Lewisville, we had storms that kept us awake most of the night.

Monday night’s storm awoke us about 1:30 p.m. and at 2:30 hail about the size of golf balls fell for more than five minutes. You should be in an RV and hear this sound. Lightning flashed across the sky continuously for more than an hour. It was not just the normal electrical patterns in the sky. It was huge flashes of light which looked like it would come from a camera flash. We had some gusts of wind that rocked the RV and then heavy rain following the hail for another hour. The second night we had a repeat storm about 10 p.m. but it did not have hail.

Our car is totally dented and there’s some damage to the RV. Geico Insurance told Ron to just go ahead and get the car repaired without having an adjuster come out. We will do that when we get back to Texas. Although the damage to the RV is not extensive, it still may cost a lot of money to make the repairs. It is mostly damage to awnings, the back-up camera, etc. They are sending an adjuster to look at it.

The Taylors (where we parked the RV) had windshields broken in their vehicles as well as dents on the body of every car and truck. The skylights in their house were broken by the hail and water and hail poured inside their house. They had a parked a fifth-wheeler camper next to our RV and it was heavily damaged. Power was out until noon the next day. The storm knocked out power across Lewisville and Denton with a lot of wind damage.

I’ve heard from Texans that everything is bigger in Texas. I know for certain that storms and wildfires are! I was a little upset with the forecasters not warning us about the storm Monday night. I watched the weather channel before going to bed and it all appeared to be in the northern counties and not expected in our area. On Tuesday night, they predicted storms to remain south of I-120 which would have kept us out of harms’ way also. A huge cell came right across Dallas and covered all of Lewisville for the second night in a row. Of course, by the time the storm gets close to us everyone is being warned but I like to know a few hours beforehand if it’s even a possibility.

Due to the lack of sleep two nights and only six hours of restless sleep on the plane, we slept about six hours last night. We had breakfast at the hotel’s buffet and I enjoyed everything on my plate. I skipped a lot of things but what I chose was very good. We even have coffee at this restaurant but it’s made strong.

I had a plateful of the following: a boiled egg, three kinds of steamed bread (one stuffed) and one more of a glutinous rice type. I had a piece of lean ham, steamed cabbage, bamboo shoots, steamed zucchini with small shrimp, cooked greens, two sweet treats (a light cake and rice with dried fruit) and watermelon. I could have eaten a second plateful of the same things but I try not to be a glutton. People ask what we eat in China and I tell everyone there are things I don’t eat (unknown meats or bacon practically raw) but the vegetables are really delicious. Not many Americans would like vegetables for breakfast but they are not half-bad! It’s all in the mind as to what is acceptable breakfast food. They had another table of cold salads and cold vegetable dishes but I never eat those. I don’t care for cold vegetables and I don’t eat anything raw. Even if vegetables have been washed in bad water, they are safe to eat after they are cooked properly. I don’t drink milk (unpasteurized) or cold drinks (which could be made from impure water). I’ve never been sick on the food. I hope I’ll make it this trip and still be able to say that again.

We have a day of rest. Becky Donovan, a girl from Louisiana, flew out of Houston and was supposed to meet up with us in Shanghai. Her flight took her through Narita, Japan. Ron and I went back to the airport at 9:30 p.m. last night to meet her and found that her flight to Shanghai had been cancelled. We have not yet gotten an email from her. We assume she stayed in the airport hotel in Narita and will take the one flight they have today to Shanghai. Lily, our translator and worker who makes our reservations, will arrive here this afternoon. Tomorrow, we all have flights to Nanning. We will spend one night in a hotel in Nanning and travel on to Tiendeng (home of John Connor Brown Christian Care Center) Sunday morning. They will delay the family meeting until the afternoon when we arrive. I will post more as I have news about the rest of our trip.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Count it all Joy

The wisdom of James 1:2-4 was studied in our class at Lewisville last Sunday morning and was very timely for me. 

"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.  But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing."

Most of us do not think of trials as "works of joy."  We want smooth sailing every day.  We don't look forward to trials and testing periods of our faith.  Yet, in order to turn trials to triumph, we must let patience do its work ...through prayers in faith. 

Often trials and disappointments knock us backwards for a while but if we trust in God, He will help us get through the rough times and set us on a course that is good, sometimes even better than before.

It was very hard, for me especially, to pack up our house in Sharpsburg and drive away, knowing Ron never intended to go back there to live.   Leaving a home seems to be much more emotional to women than it is for men.  It shut another door of my life and I was sad.  We don't know how long it will take to sell or rent the house but it's not useful to us in this phase of our lives.  Leaving our daughter in Georgia and our son in China, puts us a long distance from family.   I was already struggling with the decision to travel full-time and live in an RV, which is not one of my favorite things.  I still felt my roots were with the friends at Peachtree City and I would be back someday to live in an apartment or condo there.  We actually talked about going ahead and buying a condo in Peachtree City as we packed up the house.   The suddeness of the decision of the Peachtree City Church of Christ elders to discontinue their oversight of our work was very upsetting and disappointing when I was already struggling with having to move out of the house.  We learned the news on our last night there (after class was over) so we had no chance to talk to our dear Christian friends before we left.  We thought we would be back in a few months so we left with only casual goodbyes. 

We have known for some time that the Peachtree City elders were concerned about handling the work should something happen to Ron where he could not carry on the oversight of the work.   We understand that our mission is not just a simple work of a missionary teaching in a foreign land.  The lives of nearly 700 little children are involved and the continuance of the work is important to us and to the people of China.   Ron and I are still in good health and we strive to keep it that way, but none of ever know when it's time for us to leave this earth, no matter what our age.  However, it was only after we decided we would have to live in Texas for some time that the elders decided to give up the oversight.  No hint of  the elders discontinuing their oversight had leaked to us prior to this.   Ron intended to keep the elders well-informed and make visits back as often as possible just as a missionary would in a foreign field.  But, it was the decision of  the elders, saying they felt it would be more practical for us to get a church in TX to oversee the work. 

Considering all the possibilities, we chose Lewisville Church of Christ in Lewisville, TX as our new church home.  They began supporting our work this year and we have had contact with them for some time.  Knowing the reputation of this fine congregation, we decided we wanted to be a part of the work here as much as is possible with our travels.  We decided that this can be the center of our work and from here we can go out to the various parts of Texas to visit churches.  Lewisville is just north of Dallas.  It's a beautiful area with lakes and lovely countryside.  If you can stay out of the Dallas traffic, it's terrific!   We have been here for more than a month to get established with this congregation and prepare for our upcoming trip to China.  Ron had a few appointments already scheduled in this area, so things worked out very well.

We have been warmly accepted at the Lewisville congregation and have begun to make some wonderful friends.  We regret we will be away much of the time, but it will be a joy each time we can return.  We have asked them to oversee our work, but do not yet have a firm answer.  We are supplying them with all the information about the work in China so they can make a wise decision. 

We had some news from China two weeks ago that brought us great joy.  Ronald, our son, has become engaged to Gigi, who lives and teaches school in the Philippines.  She is an English and Math teacher of 15 years with many degrees and certificates so she will be a great asset to our work as she works with the children in the orphanages.  Neither have been married before so they feel that they are very fortunate and blessed to find each other.  We hope and pray it will be a long and happy marriage.  We are looking forward to meeting Gigi.  We already know of her many good qualities and already love her.
We will leave one week from tomorrow (June 22nd) for China.  We are looking forward to seeing Ronald and the children at the orphanages.  Becky, a lady from Louisiana is going with us.  She will teach some classes at the care centers as we visit each one.  We will travel from Shanghai to Tiendeng to the John Connor Brown Christian Care Center.  From there, we will visit Wesley's House in Pingguo and Neil Taylor Christian Care Center in Rongshui.  I think Ron also has an appointment with someone in Wuhan.  We will, lastly, visit North Canton Christian Care Center in Longhui.  From there, we will return to Shanghai and our return trip to the States.  Our traveling will be extensive and we will be exhausted by the time we arrive home only to deal with jetlag for about a week.

Then, once rested, we will begin our travels again.  Ron already has appointments set from July to October in OK, AR, TN, KY and GA. 

I hope to have news to post from China.  We ask you to remember us in your prayers.  We hope this will be a safe and productive trip. 


Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Fireworks in Texas

We escaped a round of storms that produced many sighted tornadoes last night.  This is especially scary when you live in an RV and hear the loud announcement, "tornado has been sighted, take cover immediately."   We knew from weather reports early in the day that this was very likely to happen.  We had planned to go eat early (it was my birthday) and then go to the Lewisville church building if we needed to.  They gave us a key to the building, knowing that we had no place to go for cover in the event of a bad storm.  We are about 10 minutes away. 

After we finished dinner, it did not appear to be very stormy so we returned to the RV and turned on the weather news.  There were cells forming but none looked threatening until the loud announcement was made all over the park.  We immediately closed the RV down from having electrical service and drove to the church building.  We spent an hour in the library reading where we could not even hear it raining.  Then we emerged and saw blustery skies after a lot of rain had fallen.  We sat in the car and listened to the latest location of heavy cells and possible tornadoes.  When convinced none were in our general area, we returned to the RV.  About an hour later, a heavy cell passed over us with hail and heavy rain but little wind and no rotation that would produce a tornado.  The rain was over about 11 p.m. as it all moved off to the east.

Ron said all of this was just fireworks for my birthday.  I don't think so!   Sunday night, Ron spoke at Centerville Church of Christ in Garland, TX.   We went out to eat afterwards with Holly Machemehl's parents, who are members there.    As we were leaving the restaurant, it began raining.  The further we got toward Dallas and our exit on to Lewisville, the sky lit up with more lightening than I have ever seen.  It was dancing all around from left to right for a very long distance.  It was a huge storm that spread for many miles.  By the time we merged onto I-35E, the bottom fell out.  We drove the next 10-15 miles in bumper to bumper traffic, with emergency lights blinking on every car.  Many cars and trucks had pulled over into the emergency lanes to wait it out.  We broke out of it about the time we arrived back at the RV.  The storm had moved on with no damage unless there were some wrecks.

I told Holly in an email about the bad storm.  She said everything is bigger and better in TEXAS!   It does seem that storms form west of Dallas and arrive very fiercely by the time they get here and move on to other areas.   We are saddened by the tornado in Joplin, MO on Sunday.   We learned of a family that perished when their house was blown away.   Albert and Evelyn Fuchs, long-time supporters of children in China, reported that Sara Anderson and her sixteen-year old son were found and they were still looking for her husband, Bill.  Their daughter was at work and is safe.  They were members at Connecticut Street Church of Christ in Joplin.  Bill had been on numerous mission trips to Honduras and this family was close to Albert and Evelyn so they will miss them terribly.  Please pray for the Anderson's daughter, Gracie, as she deals with the terribly loss of her family.

Now I have some good news to report.  When I checked my email for the last time before going to bed last night, I found an email and some pictures from our son, Ronald.  He is the one who works in China overseeing the orphanages.  He made acquaintance with a girl in the Philippines about a year ago and they have talked on Skype every day since.  A week or so ago, he flew to the Philippines to ask her to marry him.  We had not heard how things were going and were a little anxious to hear from him.   The good news is that he's a very happy man because she said YES.   He said she is very kind and sweet, as are her parents and the rest of her family.  He asked for their blessings on the marriage and they have treated him very graciously. 
I think they are having a special dinner and with the candles and flowers, Ronald tried to make this an occasion where she could only say YES.   Gigi is a school teacher.  Like him, she's never been married but they know having a mate is very important.   The Philippines is only a few hours from China so she will not live so far away.  We know she is close to her family and they are very important to her.  She will be a great asset to Ronald in China.  She can help with the children when they visit the orphanages.  She can teach English and become a mentor, especially to the girls.  Ronald will find life in China much easier with a wife so we are very happy for him.

"And the Lord God said, "It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him."   Gen. 2:18

We don't know more details of their plans.  Ronald has a few more days in the Philippines before he returns to China.  We will see him on our June trip to China and be filled in with all of the details.

The work in China is going very well.  We will visit three of the care centers on our next trip.  The facilities have all been improved and the local governments are cooperating and helping with many things.  Our latest newsletter outlines all of the many ways people, including the government, have assisted with gifts for the Jackson Family Christian Care Center in Zigong. 

May God continue to bless our work in China, but especially bless the people we are trying to reach with the gospel.  It is only through HIS saving Grace that any of us have a hope for eternity.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

The joys of simple pleasures of life

This week is going well with an average load of work.  We always have plenty of things to do but some weeks the work pours in and it is sometimes overwhelming. 


We have a pleasant, shady parking spot at the Lewisville Lake Park Campgrounds.  Over the weekend, there were about 50 boy scouts (or some group of boys with chaperons) camping in tents right across the street from us.  We have had cool nights (50's) and nice days in the 70's.  Today it reached 80 degrees.  I am enjoying a 30-minute walk in the park every day.  The lake is beautiful, the sky dark blue and the breeze is nice.  Our address is Kingfisher Drive but we are right around the corner from Catfish Drive and Trotline. 

Speaking of strange street names, I could not help but smile while we were parked at Boles Children's Home in Quinlan, TX.   The streets on their campus are named:   Love, Joy, Patience, Humility, Kindness and Peace.  Even the GPS picks up some of these streets in Quinlan, TX.

People in RV and camping parks stay much to themselves.  We speak in passing but everyone is here to enjoy the peace and quiet so they are not looking for friends.   I got to thinking about the difference in trailer parks and RV parks.  People have a high regard for those who own RV's and 5th wheels and these people are considered "lucky" or "well off," compared to people who live in trailer parks.  I guess most everyone that owns an RV or 5th wheel have a nice home somewhere and the motor home is their escape from the routine. 



The other day we passed an RV, a new one that was on the upper scale of expensive.  Ron remarked  "what a beauty."  I thought a minute and told him I'd never thought of an RV as being a beauty but I guess it might be real nice inside.  He said everything God made is beautiful.  After a minute, I questioned that statement as well.  I told him first of all, God didn't make RV's; and, secondly, there are things like alligators and hippos that are not really beautiful.  You can see what interesting conversations we have now that we are senior citizens and together every minute of the day and night.

You do need to be good friends to live this lifestyle.  Your neighbors are just an arm's length away and your space inside your domain is less than 10' wide.  We have to take turns in the hallway and bathroom.  Ron likes to cook his own breakfast so I stay in bed until he finishes and then I get up and make my coffee and breakfast.  The kitchen is not bad but certainly not designed for two people at the same time.

I can clean the shower, vacuum, dust and clean mirrors in about 30 minutes.  It's a Saturday morning chore but done so quickly I can move on to things I want to do for the rest of the day.  Since the space is small, everything has it's own special place.  I try to put things away and keep things neat.  I could not stand it otherwise.

In my spare time from the regular work, I'm working on my lesson for a ladies' day in Chattanooga, TN for September 10th.  I am looking forward to my time with this wonderful group of ladies.  I have written the text for my two 30-minute talks, but much time will be spent selecting pictures for the power point to go along with my lessons.

With the trip to Chattanooga, we will also be in Tennessee and Kentucky in August and September to report to churches that support our work.   From Texas, we will give reports to churches as we travel East.  This is not always true, but generally speaking, the smaller churches and the people who are not really wealthy, are the most giving.  The wealthy have a lifestyle that takes a lot of their money and often they have little left over to help others.  As I think on this truth, I read about an elderly lady that made a generous gift to the poor.  When asked if she could really afford it, her answer was this:

"I'm seventy-four now.  My husband died twenty-three years ago.  He wasn't able to leave me much money; for all this time I've earned a living by scrubbing and washing for others.  But I felt I should do more than that.  I wanted to also help those worse off than I am.  God has been good to me.  I have my health, a roof over my head, enough to eat.  So many people don't have these blessings.  And then I thought it would be better to work a little bit harder in this life and take my rest in the life to come." 

It's interesting to me to notice that those who have things in this life "a little bit harder" often seem to have a better foretaste of what heaven will be while many who seek heaven on earth through pleasure or self-gratification, have a dim view of and less desire for heaven. 

It's something to think about.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Back in Texas after a trip to Georgia

We have always heard that home is “where the heart is” and that’s true as life changes. Nothing stays the same. If you don’t like your present situation, just wait. It will change. It may be soon or it may be years, but life, for all of us at all ages, is forever changing.


The middle of April, we drove back to our house in Sharpsburg, GA and packed up our stuff. We have accumulated so much “stuff” over the years. I cannot imagine someone living in the same house all of their married life and then trying to clean it out. We began our mission work in 1984 and we cleaned out our house and moved to St. Croix, U.S.V.I. We lived in simple apartments for about 15 years. When we returned from the foreign mission field to Nashville in 1998, we began to fill a house again with stuff. A lot of it was “gifts” from our family, children and friends. These are the things that bring memories and are special to us. Things I bought at stores for a certain spot to make a house a home, means nothing when removed from that location. With this move, we have moved 16 times since we got married.

Leigh Ann (our daughter) took what she could. She has limited space but she was able to accept things that had value or were of special sentimental value to me. That made me very happy. Those things are hers to do whatever she wishes with them in the future. I don’t have that pain in the heart that I would have if I threw them away. I brought back to the RV to enjoy a few things our children have given us. The rest of the stuff I packed up can be sold at a yard sale (25 cents to hundreds of dollars) but it is all too good to throw in the garbage.

We are parked at Boles’ Children Home in Quinlan, Texas (outside of Greenville and an hour’s drive from Dallas). We will visit several churches in this area for the next month. We will return to China on June 22nd. I will write about that trip as soon as I return home. Future plans include me speaking at a Ladies’ Day in Chattanooga, TN on September 10th with my subject “Making a Difference”. We will report to churches in Tennessee and Kentucky in September and October.

As long as we are able to do fund-raising for the work in China and give reports to interested churches, we will continue this life-style. I fought living this way because I honestly don’t like camping and never will. For the life of me, I don’t know why anyone would do this if they didn’t have to. Maybe it would be different however, if you could park at resorts, take in the sights, and move on at your leisure. Our purpose is so different because we go where we can get appointments and stay only as long as necessary. There’s no real “adventure” in our camping but there is an overwhelming sense of accomplishment because it is a good work. It is good to be physically and mentally able to work and we plan to do that as long as we are able. For both of us, this full-time together is important at this stage of our lives. You have to be great friends to live peacefully together in an RV!

Should we have to give up the traveling, we will reduce our “stuff” down to an apartment size living quarters. As we get older, having only necessities and a simple life-style is a blessing for us and for our children who will never have to clean out a house with too many belongings and too many memories.

Our house will be sold whenever the market is such that we can, but if it does not sell, we will try to rent it. It was a good home; it served our purposes well, but is no longer needed.

Our daughter is enjoying the benefits of a small apartment and finding life easier to manage without so much “stuff.” She says she needs to begin cleaning out unnecessary things also. Our son, Ronald, is going to the Philippines this weekend to propose to a girl who lives on a remote island in the Philippines. If this relationship works out, he will continue to live in China (or perhaps later in the Philippines). Neither of our children will need our house, so it’s time to let it go.

As I mentioned at the beginning, things are forever changing. We will be changing the sponsoring congregation for the work in China. For many years, the elders at Peachtree City have wondered what they would do with the work should something happen to Ron. Ron is currently looking for a congregation that is capable and willing to continue the work in the future. We support over 650 little children that would have no hope in life without our care. It is a big operation and will require some management from the U.S, although we have operations in China running extremely well, due to our son’s oversight. Ron continues to try to build up funds to secure the work in the future, but in today’s economy, it’s not easy. We ask for your prayers that HE will lead us to the right congregation and right people to assist with the work in China so it can continue as long as HE is willing.

Reminiscing about how life changes, I spoke on Saturday with a dear friend in Nashville. Her name is Mary Ann Farmer and she is 89 years old. When we moved to Nashville from Montreal, Quebec, Mary Ann befriended me and remains a close friend. When Ron was making trips to China and I was working as the church secretary, Mary Ann made sure I was invited with her friends to dinner, movies and events. She took care of me to keep me from being alone and lonely. We went to the mall and walked every morning during the week days. The good part of that is, after our walk, we went to McDonald’s and ate breakfast! I’m sure we needed to walk about l/2 day to offset the calories of our breakfast but it was a fun time and we convinced ourselves that it was “healthy.” She can make the best banana pudding ever! Mary Ann is now in assisted living and not doing well. My prayers continue for this dear friend from 1998.

I will close this segment of my blog with these thoughts taken from THREE MINUTES A DAY by James Keller:

“In the O.T. it is said, “Remember thy last end and thou shalt never sin.” (Eccl. 7:40). If someone could follow us always and never let us forget the great fundamentals of life – the value of our individual soul, the deep love of HIM for each of us, the love we should have for all men as children of a common Father, and above all the eternity of either heaven or hell which will follow the end of our life here on earth – what changed beings we would be. We wouldn’t make the mistakes we often make now through our failure to keep our minds fixed on these infallible truths. Instead, the life of each of us would be a living prayer which would affect not only ourselves but the world.”

Last Wednesday night I heard the teacher of our class (an elder) say: “I told my son that nothing in life is important unless you go to heaven in the end.”

Let us all be busy in HIS work and remember that we have a world to win, that those far from HIM may have heaven also.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Rattlesnakes and cactus

We enjoyed 10 days parked in the driveway of Dr. & Mrs. Monte Horne in Hamilton, TX.  They have supported our work for many years and been so generous in offering us their home.  We stayed in the RV during this time but used one of their spare bathrooms (our shower in the RV was not working right).  They invited us in to share quite a few of their delicious meals.  Ron and I each had a little illness while there so Dr. Horne made RV calls (in lieu of "House Calls") and gave us medication that helped us recover quicker. 

We told them it was very hard to leave with a Mexican restaurant next door (Rosy Horne is from Honduras) and a doctor that make house calls.  They are both very good at what they do!!

While in the Hamilton area, we went to churches in Hico, Rising Star, Cross Plains and Stephenville.  We were in Hamilton two Wednesday nights and one Sunday.  It was good to meet and get to know so many wonderful Christians in these congregations.  We shared meals and overhead conversations about rattlesnake roundups, the wildlife in this area and other stories of the country.

I will have to do some research on the rattlesnake roundups but we are not planning to be part of one!

We heard coyotes in the near distance at the Horne home.  They recently saw a bobcat in one of their trees.  We were driving back to Hamilton from Stephenville on Wednesday night and a pretty black and white animal with a fluffy tail casually walked in front of the car.  It was my first time to see a skunk up close.  I was very thankful we did not hit it. 

We left Hamilton about mid-morning to drive to San Angelo where we will be for this weekend.  The countryside was flat most of the way so when we saw some big hills ahead at one point, it looked really strange.  Cactus is growing wild all along the roadside.   Trees are showing new bright green leaves but we have not seen many blooming flowers and no flowering trees.  The towns are small and quaint in this area of Texas.  On the way,  I saw a sign pointing to a little town off to the side named Blanket. Just ahead, Ron saw something and asked if I could tell what it was.  I told him it looked like a horse and carriage.  He pulled to the left lane and as we passed, I saw it was actually a covered wagon with a family inside (men with big black-brimmed hats.  Two horses were pulling the wagon and two were tied at the back.  I'm thinking this was a Mennonite family but I don't know if there's a community of these people in this area or not.  Being in West Texas, I told Ron they were heading further west to homestead somewhere.

We went through Santa Rosa where a big sign said that the 3rd Saturday of every month they reenact "How the West Was Won."  If tomorrow was the 3rd Saturday I would think the covered wagon was part of the show.   I saw a big sign across a building in one little town that said 'SALOON.'

We arrived in San Angelo and endured a hot afternoon with the temperature reaching 95 degrees.  Local weather news shows 95 each day through Sunday (the time we will be in San Angelo) then another dry cold front will cool it down to the 80's next week.  It is very dry in Texas and they are desperately in need of rain.  While we were in Hamilton, we had a very cold week with temperatures in the 40's at night and some days only in the 60's.  We had light rain but no significant amount.  We are experiencing a wide range of temperatures from week to week.

We have two churches on Sunday and one more in the San Angelo area that Ron would like to contact while we are here.  Then we will drive to Odessa, Midland and Abilene.  I will think of Ronald, our son, when we talk about going to Abilene.  He went to university there for two years (in the 80's when it was still a good Christian university).  We don't get very good reports now about Abilene from many folks in this area.

About the middle of April, we will drive back to Greenville (east of Dallas) and park the RV at Boles Childrens' Home.  We will drive the car back to Atlanta, stopping along the way to make appointments at several churches and staying with friends in Florence, Alabama. 

We will be at our home in Sharpsburg the last week of April.  I have some medical check-ups and we will be getting the house ready to rent. 

I try to end with a good thought for the day.

"Man was designed for accomplishment; engineered for success, and endowed with the seeds of greatness.  Ability is important in the quest for success, but dependability is critical."

I would take an employee with dependability over skill any day of the week!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Not a very exciting week...but that can be good too!

Last Sunday afternoon we drove from San Benito to Kingsville and attended Sunday night service there.  They had a good location for us to park overnight.  We left Monday morning and drove to San Antonio.  Ron wanted Iron Horse RV Repair Service in San Antonio to give the RV a check-up to be sure the critical things were in good working condition.  The RV is 10 years old and it's apparent the previous owner did little maintenance.  We got to Iron Horse too late in the day for them to start the checks, so we plugged in at their lower parking lot and spent the night.  The next day, they worked on the RV but still had a little more to do at the end of the day.  Another night was spent there.  Wednesday morning they completed everything, repaired a few things, replaced some filters and stuff and then we were ready to leave.  It was about noon as we hooked up the car and drove to Walmart to get gas.

Getting gas is not one of my favorite things.  I have to get out and locate the diesel pump and see if there's room for him to pull in and pull out and direct him safely into the spot.  This time, the pump was on the end but a gas refilling truck was parked too close for him to pull out.  Luckily, the truck was finishing up and replacing his hoses so we waited until we could pull in.  Soon we were on our way to San Antonio.  The traffic was heavy all the way but the drive was pleasant and uneventful. 

We arrived in Austin at the Southwest church late in the afternoon.  We went to Bible class at this church Wednesday night and are still parked here.  Sunday morning we will leave early enough to drive to the church in Leander, TX.  Sunday afternoon we will drive to Lampasas and attend Sunday night service there.

Ron had intended to go to San Angelo but none of the churches had returned his call so we headed north instead of northwest from San Benito.  Last night, one of the San Angelo churches called and said they would like for him to come.  That will require some backtracking but Ron has to wait to see if some of the other appointments come through first.  It's not easy to plan and schedule appointments when the churches wait for weeks, sometimes, before they call him back.

We are moving on toward Abilene, Odessa and Midland (eventually). 

I have felt unusually sad all week.  I think the earthquake and tsunami in Japan and the terrible loss of lives and the anxiety of other world events (Libya) looming over us, gave me a somber feeling. 

Ronald, our son who works in China, planned his vacation (a long dream of his) for Hawaii almost a year ago.  Reservations have been made for months.  He got as far a Shanghai and then could not complete the trip on his Delta ticket because of the earthquake.  His flight was to Narita, Japan and then on to Hawaii.  He may have spent two nights in Shanghai before he arranged a flight to Vancouver and on to Hawaii through Air Canada.  This cost him an extra ticket and delayed his arrival.  I was sad for him that his trip was delayed and the frustration he went through to try to get there through another airline that added many more hours to his trip.  But, at the same time, I was very thankful he was not in Japan when the earthquake happened.  In the midst of every disaster there are blessings somewhere.  We just have to look for them.

I know the Japanese people will rebuild and recover from their loss but the loss of 15,000 people will never be righted.  As I was growing up, I don't remember world disasters, like this, and yet I know they happened.  Was it because I was young and carefree that it made little impact on me?   Was it because I was too busy to listen to the news and know what was going on?  Or, was it that the media coverage is so intense now that we can sit glued to the screen and see the pictures and hear the interviews and it makes us feel as if we are there, suffering with them?   In any event, our world is chaotic and life is uncertain and it makes us older people realize why we need to be prepared to leave the earth on a moment's notice.

On a lighter and happier note, Ron and I celebrated our 53rd wedding anniversary on Tuesday.  We didn't do anything very exciting but just being healthy and having our family safe, made it a good day.  We went to Sea Island to eat that night.  I had coconut shrimp and Ron had salmon (he said it was better than Red Lobster's).

We were just college kids, marrying on spring break, in 1958.  It doesn't seem that long in many ways when I think back to that time, but a lot has changed since then.  The world is different.  We have raised two children, moved many times, lived in various cities and traveled many miles.  It makes me think of the many times I said, "many miles to go before I can sleep."

Spring is here!   Trees and grass are green in Texas and we are having unseasonably warm temperatures.  Here in Austin, it's in the 60's at night and 80's during the day.   We saw many crops planted and coming up as we drove from San Benito.  We passed one large farm with many fields and two oil wells steadily pumping and a third one being built. 

May God bless you and be with you as you face another week in service to HIM.